Showing posts with label food. Show all posts
Showing posts with label food. Show all posts

Thursday, March 3, 2011

February: A Month of Celebration

Dear Chicken Nugget,

I haven't written a letter to you in over a month.  Please forgive this brief time away.

There was lots going on in February that I'll be writing about in the next few weeks:
- Your mom and I celebrated our birthday on February 8th (we have the same birthday!)
- We spent our first Valentine's Day with you
- We celebrated our 3rd Anniversary on February 18th
- I spent a week at home for Mid-Winter Recess
- We watched you roll over from your back to your belly - turns out it's harder than it looks
- I saw your first tooth and then watched it vanish
- We filed our taxes two months ahead of schedule
- You ate your first food (sweet potato)
- I officially enrolled in the Libertarian Party
- We taught you your first word in baby sign language (tickle)
- You started missing your parents

This list will probably serve as a sort of preview of the letters to come.  There was so much going on in February and I spent so much great quality time with you and your mom that writing my letters to you became something I kept putting off.  Of course, there's plenty going on in March, but I need to get going again and catch up.

I'll leave you with this, tonight as I pulled out "Ve, Perro,Ve" to read to you, you recognized it (it's one of ten books we read to you every day), smiled, and laughed in excitement as I read the title.


Looks like we have your first favorite book!


Eternally yours,

Tu papa

Saturday, October 2, 2010

I changed my diet for you

Dear Chicken Nugget,

Heart disease runs in our family, at least my side.  I've been diagnosed with a high cholesterol since childhood and it reached its peak in adulthood.  The problem, besides my own body's inability to control its cholesterol production, is diet.

Your Grandma Betty is an awesome cook as you will someday discover.  But, the Ecuadorian diet typically consists of white rice, a meat, and some sort of delicious sauce (made of corn, plantain, or oils and spices.)  It's delicious stuff and will always taste like home to me.  But it lacks a variety of vegetables and includes too much white starch and animal fat.  Tasty, but not great for a family that is prone to diabetes and heart disease.

I've been battling with high cholesterol for at least eight years.  As a young bachelor, straight out of college, and starting to teach, I was told by the doctor that I had a high cholesterol.  High enough that I had to go on medication or do something about it - like diet and exercise.  First I tried diet, which worked somewhat.  Then I tried exercise, which started my life as a runner, and that helped some.  But, failing to combine the diet and exercise together made the cholesterol stay high.

It all reached its epic peak in January 2010 when I went in for a routine checkup at the doctor's office.  He was a new doctor and hearing about my family's history of heart disease he ran the usual tests.  The results were disastrous.

My cholesterol was high and, even worse, there were several other indicators in the blood work that showed that I was at high risk for a heart attack.  There I was, 29 years old, having just found out that your mom was pregnant with you and being told that if I was 55 years old I'd be in serious, even deadly, trouble.

I immediately got to work doing research on cholesterol, diet, exercise, and magic potions; anything to ensure that I got my cholesterol down and lived a healthy life for you and your mom.  I ended up finding a book called Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease by Dr. Caldwell Esselstyn.  In it he describes what the body does when you eat a diet high in fats and animal products.  Essentially, you get heart disease.  Although most doctors recommend that your cholesterol be kept under 200, Dr. Esselstyn recommends that you stay under 150.  And, the quickest way to do that is through a low-fat plant-based diet.

I started the diet almost as soon as I finished reading the book.  I also found out that a friend of ours from Nebraska, Bryan, had started a similar lifestyle change.  It went well and the numbers dropped dramatically.  I was training for the NJ Half-Marathon, raising money for the American Heart Association, and all was well.  I was put on medication as a precaution but the doctor said that if the numbers continued to drop we could try without the meds.

But, slowly, I became overly confidant in my numbers and I started introducing foods that I should have been avoiding.  Then, an old running injury prevented me from running the NJ Half-Marathon.  Then, summer happened.  As the excuses piled up, I lost control of my diet.  Then, you came.

For the last 27 days I've been staring at you in awe.  You are incredible.  I love you tremendously and would do anything for you; including changing my lifestyle so that I can enjoy many healthy years with you.

So, I'm back to my low-fat plant-based lifestyle.  I won't say that I'll follow the diet perfectly - there's always a mistake here and there.  But, I want those mistakes to be rare.  This isn't just about me and my cholesterol anymore.  It's also about you and your mom.

Recently, former President Bill Clinton told CNN that he has lost 24 lbs following the diet that Dr. Esselstyn writes about.  He's trying to reverse his heart disease and live long enough to see his grandkids grow up.

That's a wonderful goal.  It's mine too.


Eternally yours,

Tu papa

Friday, June 4, 2010

the Baby Jesus is coming!

Dear Chicken Nugget,

I'm not sure how long we'll live in Astoria or even in the apartment where we hope to be when you join us, but I have to tell you one of the reasons we love this place: right across the street is a wonderful restaurant called Vesta.

It's an Italian restaurant, locally owned, where they use local ingredients and free-range antibiotic-free stuff.  But, more importantly, it's delicious.

My favorite dessert ever, EVER, is something they call the Baby Jesus cake.  The name was chosen when they were first taste-testing the cake and the first comment about it was, "Baby Jesus, that's good!"  The name stuck.

So last night, your mom and I are having dinner and our server walks over and says, "The Baby Jesus is coming."

We were caught off guard, first, because we hadn't ordered one.  The owner, knowing us very well, ordered one for us.  And, second, because the phrasing was great.  "The Baby Jesus is coming."

Your mom looked at each other and laughed. 

One day when you're old enough we hope to bring you to Vesta so you can enjoy some Baby Jesus cake. Maybe the Baby Jesus will be there too...

Love always,
Tu papa

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Week 26 in the belly

Dear Chicken Nugget,

Today you've been in the belly for 26 weeks.  Your mom is growing!  And, we're feeling you move around a lot.  Apparently, in the womb, you love when your momma has sweets.  Whenever your mom has something sweet, be it chocolate or an apple, you start kicking like crazy.  Nugget, apparently you're a fan of sugar. Join the club.

We learned this week that you can probably hear my voice so I started to read to you.  I started by reading a bilingual alphabet book to the belly.  We'll be playing lots of music for you as well.  I'm hoping the music will help you develop a sense of rhythm - you are half-latino so rhythm is very important.

So, keep growing baby.  Keep kicking.  And dance away the sugar rush.

We love you,

Your papa

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

National Artichoke Hearts Day

Dear Chicken Nugget,

Today, March 16th, is National Artichoke Hearts Day.  I usually wouldn't mention something like this except that your mom and I happen to be huge fans of the artichoke.  It's a fun food and I think you'll enjoy it.

The artichoke itself looks menacing.  A tough skin and pointy needles make it a wonder how anyone even decided to eat the thing in the first place.  But, someone did, and for that we are forever grateful.

There are a lot of foods out there that you're going to try that look weird but turn out to be great.  I want you to be adventurous with your food; it's a great thing to be able to discover new flavors from strange looking foods.  And, you're really lucky, nugget.  By the time you start eating solid foods, most of the foods of the known world will have been discovered.  You can confidently eat things that are deemed safe and learn to enjoy new flavors.

I often wonder how many people got sick, sometimes fatally, in trying to determine what was good to eat and what wasn't.  You should thank those anonymous people;  I do.

Also, if you don't like a certain food somewhere along the way, it's ok.  Your mom and I are not big fans of the olive.  We've tried eating them but we're just not into them.  If you don't like something, you'll know it pretty quickly.  Just give it a chance and try to eat it every now and then, you never know when your palate will change. 

And trust me, try the artichoke.  It's really fun to try whole and it's really easy to just eat the artichoke hearts.  I'm pretty sure you'll like it.   

And always give thanks to those who came before you; the adventurous who decided to open the vegetable with the tough skin and pointy leaves as well as the brave who didn't make it after eating a food we now know is poisonous.  It is because of them that we can eat pretty safely.

Happy Artichoke Hearts Day!

Eternally yours,

Your papa